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<\/p>\nG\u00fcn i\u00e7inde birbirimize bir\u00e7ok s\u00f6z s\u00f6yleriz iyi veya k\u00f6t\u00fc. S\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz s\u00f6zler psikolojimizi, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 olumlu veya olumsuz etkiler. Herkes g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler duymak ister do\u011fal olarak. Ama bazen s\u00f6ylenilen g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bulmaz. Bazen insanlar senin iltifat\u0131na ihtiyac\u0131m yok, senden ho\u015flanm\u0131yorum gibi bir tav\u0131r sergileyebilir. O zaman hi\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fclmeyin \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes kalbinde olan\u0131 size s\u00f6yler. Bu sizin hatan\u0131z de\u011fildir. O ki\u015fi b\u00f6yle davranmay\u0131 se\u00e7mi\u015ftir. Hayatta her \u015feyin ge\u00e7ici oldu\u011funun fark\u0131nda olmayan insanlardand\u0131r. Kibir duvar\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131na saklanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n
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Kibir kalbi daralt\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131 yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kibirli insan, fark etmeden bir duvar \u00f6rer. O duvar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda g\u00fcvenlik vard\u0131r belki\u2026Ama samimiyet yoktur.<\/p>\n
Tevazu ise insan\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltmez.<\/p>\n
Tam tersine y\u00fcceltir.<\/p>\n
Bir a\u011fac\u0131n meyve verdik\u00e7e dallar\u0131n\u0131n e\u011filmesi gibi\u2026<\/p>\n
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Olgunluk e\u011filmeyi bilmektir Para, g\u00fczellik, i\u015f vb. Hepsi ge\u00e7icidir. Kal\u0131c\u0131 olansa yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z iyiliklerdir. Bizim i\u00e7in s\u00f6ylenen g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler, dualar vs… Bazen insanlar ge\u00e7mi\u015fe d\u00f6nsem \u015funu yapmazd\u0131m, \u015f\u00f6yle davranmazd\u0131m. En \u00f6nemlisi bunu ona s\u00f6ylemezdim, onunla b\u00f6yle konu\u015fmazd\u0131m. Biz s\u00f6ylenileni geri alamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in bir s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6ylerken iki kere d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeliyiz. \u0130ki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp bir konu\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc s\u00f6zlerimizi de\u011ferlidir. De\u011fer de herkese verilmez. Kibirlilerin d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n merkezi sadece kendileridir… D\u00fcnya hi\u00e7birimizin etraf\u0131nda d\u00f6nm\u00fcyor ama…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde birbirimize bir\u00e7ok s\u00f6z s\u00f6yleriz iyi veya k\u00f6t\u00fc. S\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz s\u00f6zler psikolojimizi, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131…<\/p>\n