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<\/p>\nHayat hep bir ko\u015fu\u015fturmacan\u0131n pe\u015finde ge\u00e7ip gider. Ne g\u00fcnlerin k\u0131ymeti bilinir ne aylar\u0131n ne de y\u0131llar\u0131n. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmaktan hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ya\u015famay\u0131 unuturuz baz\u0131 zamanlar. Oysa bu k\u0131sa \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fczde aslolan ya\u015famakt\u0131r. Her an\u0131 her dakikay\u0131 doya doya ya\u015famak. Ya\u015f ge\u00e7ip de elden ayaktan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce anlar insan baz\u0131 \u015feylerin k\u0131ymetini. En \u00f6nemlisi de sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131ymetini. Sa\u011fl\u0131k elden gidince bunca y\u0131l erteledi\u011fi \u015feyleri yani hayat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015famak ister. Ama i\u015f i\u015ften \u00e7oktan ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir. Ne kadar \u00fcz\u00fclsen de baz\u0131 zamanlar geriye gelmez. \u0130nsan her soruna, her zorlu\u011fa ra\u011fmen an\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ne ge\u00e7mi\u015fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp \u00fcz\u00fclmeli ne de gelece\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp endi\u015felenmelidir. Her\u015fey hayatta mutlaka olaca\u011f\u0131na var\u0131r. \u00c7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek sadece kendimizi mutsuz ederiz ve sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kaybederiz.<\/p>\n
Her g\u00fcn g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde mutlaka sevinece\u011fimiz bir\u015fey mutlaka vard\u0131r asl\u0131nda. Ya\u015famak, nefes almak, konu\u015fmak, y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilmek bile bir mutluluktur. Her ac\u0131 her zorluk her sorun g\u00fcn\u00fcn birinde mutlaka biter. Mutluluklar\u0131m\u0131z sonsuza kadar s\u00fcrmedi\u011fi gibi \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fclerimiz de s\u00fcrmez.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocukken ge\u00e7mek bilmeyen zaman b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce \u00e7ok h\u0131zl\u0131 ge\u00e7er. Haftalar g\u00fcnler gibi aylar haftalar gibi y\u0131llar da aylar gibi ge\u00e7er. \u00c7ocukken hep b\u00fcy\u00fcmek isteriz b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce da geriye d\u00f6nmek \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuza d\u00f6nmek. Dertsiz tasas\u0131z ya\u015famak isteriz. Dertlerle ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmektir aslolan. Dertleri \u00e7\u00f6zmek, dertlere ra\u011fmen g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemektir, ya\u015famakt\u0131r. \u00c7aresizce beklemek, kara kara d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek de\u011fildir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat, s\u00fcrekli ertelenerek ya\u015fanacak bir prova de\u011fildir. Bug\u00fcn ya\u015fanmayan, hissedilmeyen, fark edilmeyen her an; geri d\u00f6nmeyecek \u015fekilde kaybolur. \u0130nsan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u201csonra\u201dlara s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r. Sonra dinlenece\u011fim, sonra gezece\u011fim, sonra mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131m der. Oysa \u201csonra\u201d dedi\u011fimiz zamanlar geldi\u011finde ya g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ya da hevesimiz. Hayaller bile beklemekten yorulur bazen.<\/p>\n
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Ko\u015fturmacan\u0131n i\u00e7inde fark etmeden kendimizi ihmal ederiz. Bedenimizin verdi\u011fi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck uyar\u0131lar\u0131, ruhumuzun sessiz \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 duymamay\u0131 se\u00e7eriz. Bir g\u00fcn durup aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ise ge\u00e7en y\u0131llar\u0131n izlerini g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz; yorgun bir bak\u0131\u015fta, a\u011f\u0131rla\u015fm\u0131\u015f ad\u0131mlarda, eskisi kadar kolay g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyemeyen bir y\u00fczde\u2026 \u0130\u015fte o zaman \u201cKe\u015fke\u201d kelimesi d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcr dudaklar\u0131m\u0131zdan. Ke\u015fke biraz daha yava\u015flasayd\u0131m, ke\u015fke kendime daha \u00e7ok zaman ay\u0131rsayd\u0131m, ke\u015fke sevdiklerime daha \u00e7ok sar\u0131lsayd\u0131m deriz. Oysa mutluluk \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015feylerde sakl\u0131 de\u011fildir. Bir sabah uyan\u0131p camdan s\u00fcz\u00fclen \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rmek, i\u00e7ilen s\u0131cak bir \u00e7ay\u0131n kokusu, bir dosttan gelen i\u00e7ten bir mesaj, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kahkahas\u0131, bir \u015fark\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7imizi titreten bir dizesi\u2026 Hayat dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey asl\u0131nda bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anlar\u0131n toplam\u0131d\u0131r. Biz b\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluklara ula\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck ama ger\u00e7ek mutluluklar\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hayat hep bir ko\u015fu\u015fturmacan\u0131n pe\u015finde ge\u00e7ip gider. Ne g\u00fcnlerin k\u0131ymeti bilinir ne aylar\u0131n ne de…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":49,"featured_media":3358,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[100],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[247],"class_list":["post-3357","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-deneme"],"yoast_head":"\n