{"id":2268,"date":"2025-09-10T11:11:46","date_gmt":"2025-09-10T08:11:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/simurgedebiyat.com\/?p=2268"},"modified":"2025-09-10T15:21:03","modified_gmt":"2025-09-10T12:21:03","slug":"kendini-sevmenin-gucu-modern-dunyanin-narsizmin-sagaltici-yani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/simurgedebiyat.com\/index.php\/2025\/09\/10\/kendini-sevmenin-gucu-modern-dunyanin-narsizmin-sagaltici-yani\/","title":{"rendered":"Kendini Sevmenin G\u00fcc\u00fc:  Narsisizmin Sa\u011falt\u0131c\u0131 Y\u00f6n\u00fc"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Narkissos, ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc g\u00fczelli\u011fiyle tan\u0131nan bir delikanl\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n sevgisine kay\u0131ts\u0131zd\u0131r, kimseyi be\u011fenmez. Tanr\u0131lar bu kibirli tavr\u0131 cezaland\u0131r\u0131r: Bir g\u00fcn suya e\u011fildi\u011finde kendi yans\u0131mas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve ona \u00e2\u015f\u0131k olur. Kendi yans\u0131mas\u0131ndan kopamaz, g\u00fcnlerce suyun ba\u015f\u0131nda kal\u0131r, sonunda orada solup gider. Efsaneye g\u00f6re \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yerde \u201cnergis \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fi\u201d a\u00e7ar.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Mitolojik bu anlat\u0131, ki\u015finin kendi benli\u011fine a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 hayranl\u0131k ve ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 sembolize eder. Modern \u00e7a\u011fda s\u0131k\u00e7a kibirli, ukala, kendini be\u011fenme gibi kavramlarla \u00f6zde\u015fle\u015fmi\u015f olan narsisizm kimsenin kendisine yak\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak istemeyece\u011fi s\u0131fatlardan birine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f durumdad\u0131r. Oysaki psikoloji literat\u00fcr\u00fcnde narsisizm ruhun en temel beslenme kaynaklar\u0131ndan birisidir. Her birey kendi benli\u011fine ve varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na de\u011fer bi\u00e7me, g\u00f6r\u00fclme, onaylanma, takdir edilme, sevilme, be\u011fenilme, \u00f6d\u00fcllendirilme ihtiyac\u0131 hissetmektedir. Do\u011fumundan itibaren tam anlam\u0131yla bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olan bebe\u011fin zihin d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda annesi asl\u0131nda kendisinin bir uzant\u0131s\u0131 veya devam\u0131ndan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Bebe\u011fin hayatta kalmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan bu narsisistik kavray\u0131\u015f, 2 ya\u015f sendromu olarak bilinen ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun benmerkezcili\u011finin zirveye \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nemde de devam eder. Birey i\u00e7in anne karn\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p hayata g\u00f6zlerini a\u00e7mak asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir kay\u0131pt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc beslenmesi, nefes almas\u0131 veya di\u011fer gerekleri i\u00e7in herhangi bir \u00e7aba sarf etmesine gerek yoktur. Zaten her \u015fey b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcyle haz\u0131r olarak ona gelmektedir. Ne zamanki o g\u00f6bek ba\u011f\u0131na kesik vurulur, insan i\u00e7in ya\u015fam\u0131n \u0131zd\u0131rab\u0131 ba\u015flar. Bu \u0131zd\u0131rab\u0131 yeniden mant\u0131ksalla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131labilmesi i\u00e7in insan\u0131n kendi benli\u011fine yat\u0131r\u0131m yapmas\u0131, varolu\u015funu anlamland\u0131rmas\u0131 gerekir. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 test etmeye, \u2018ben kimim\u2019 , \u2018neyim\u2019 , \u2018amac\u0131m ne\u2019 , \u2018neler yapabilirim\u2019, sorular\u0131n\u0131 sormaya, bunlara uygun cevaplar bulmaya iteler. Oyunda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0131z\u0131k\u00e7\u0131l\u0131ktan ebeveyniyle k\u0131yas\u0131ya giri\u015fti\u011fi mant\u0131ks\u0131z inatla\u015fmalar\u0131na sebep asl\u0131nda budur.<\/p>\n<p>Aynalanma (mirroring) ihtiyac\u0131 narsisistik geli\u015fimin ve kimli\u011fin b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fmesinin en temel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131ndan biridir. \u00c7ocuk g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedi\u011finde annenin buna tebess\u00fcmle yan\u0131t vermesi, bir \u015fey ba\u015fard\u0131\u011f\u0131nda gururla alk\u0131\u015flanmas\u0131, anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir hikayenin dikkatle dinlenmesi\u2026 T\u00fcm bunlar \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u015fu mesaj\u0131 verir: <em>\u2018\u2019Sen \u00f6nemlisin, sen de\u011ferlisin\u2019\u2019<\/em>. Bu aynalanma sayesinde \u00e7ocuk kendi benli\u011fini g\u00f6rmeyi ve de\u011ferli hissetmeyi \u00f6\u011frenir. \u0130leri d\u00f6nemde de bu ihtiya\u00e7 devam eder. Geli\u015fim d\u00f6neminde ya\u015fanan ciddi hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131, uygun \u015fekilde aynalanmayan \u00e7ocuklar, duygular\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 k\u00f6r bir \u00e7evrede b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc hissine kap\u0131lan \u00e7ocuklar veya ebeveynlerinin <em>\u2018prens\u2019 ve \u2018prensesleri\u2019 <\/em>olarak b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclen \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in yeti\u015fkinlikte ki\u015filer aras\u0131 ili\u015fkilerde ciddi zorluk ve toplumsal hayata entegrasyon riski mevcuttur.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklukta aynalanma d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ayr\u0131ca g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir fig\u00fcr\u00fc idealle\u015ftirmeye de ihtiya\u00e7 duyar\u0131z. \u00c7ocuk i\u00e7in anne, baba ya da bir otorite fig\u00fcr\u00fc \u2018her \u015feyi bilen, koruyan\u2019 olarak ya\u015fan\u0131r. Bu idealle\u015ftirme \u00e7ocu\u011fa g\u00fcven ve y\u00f6n duygusu verir. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimde bu idealler zamanla ger\u00e7eklikle dengelenir. \u00c7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e anne-babas\u0131n\u0131n hatalar\u0131 oldu\u011funu da g\u00f6r\u00fcr ama bu \u00e7ocu\u011fun ebeveynlerine olan sevgi ve sayg\u0131s\u0131nda bir eksilmeye neden olmaz, hatta bu benli\u011fin olgunla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 ve k\u0131r\u0131lmalara kar\u015f\u0131 dayan\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar. Ancak hakarete, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamaya, hakir g\u00f6rmeye tan\u0131kl\u0131k eden, bizzat ya\u015fayan, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olman\u0131n s\u00fcrekli olarak empoze edildi\u011fi ortamlarda b\u00fcy\u00fcyen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n eninde sonunda hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015famas\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. O zaman bu ki\u015filer ileri d\u00f6nemde devaml\u0131 olarak kusursuz bir otorite aray\u0131\u015f\u0131na girecekler, devaml\u0131 olarak bir \u015feyleri \u00fclk\u00fcle\u015ftireceklerdir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendi benlik sayg\u0131s\u0131 tamamlanmam\u0131\u015f olanlar bunu ancak idealize ederek tutunmak isteyecekleri nesneler arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla yapabileceklerine inanmaktad\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7evremizi, yak\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 se\u00e7me veya \u015fekillendirme olana\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131d\u0131r. Markette paras\u0131 olmayan annesinden dondurma veya oyuncak istedi\u011fi i\u00e7in surat\u0131na tokat yiyerek terbiye edilen \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in, her yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fi, yeme\u011fi, temizli\u011fi kay\u0131nvalidesi taraf\u0131ndan ele\u015ftirilen gelin i\u00e7in, a\u011fz\u0131yla ku\u015f tutsa burnunla niye tutamad\u0131n diye geri bildiri alan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar i\u00e7in, \u00fcniversite s\u0131nav\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131 yapamad\u0131 diye y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc asan baban\u0131n evlad\u0131 i\u00e7in\u2026 \u0130nsano\u011flu i\u00e7in sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve patolojik narsisizm ayr\u0131m\u0131 \u015f\u00fcphesiz her \u00e7a\u011f i\u00e7in ge\u00e7erli olabilecek bir dualizmdi. Ancak mevcut d\u00fcnya d\u00fczeninde insan kendini daha de\u011ferli hissetmesi i\u00e7in bir \u015fey \u2018<em>olmak<\/em>\u2019 yerine bir \u015fey \u2018<em>yapmak<\/em>\u2019 zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f durumda. Hay\u0131rl\u0131 bir evlat <em>olmak <\/em>yerine s\u0131navda derece <em>yapmak<\/em>, \u00e7ocu\u011funun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 elindeki t\u00fcm imkanlar\u0131na g\u00f6re kar\u015f\u0131layan anne <em>olmak<\/em> yerine al\u0131m g\u00fcc\u00fc y\u00fcksek di\u011fer anneler gibi \u00e7ocu\u011fun t\u00fcm isteklerini <em>yapmak, <\/em>d\u00fcr\u00fcst ve d\u00fczenli ama yeterli bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan <em>olmak<\/em> yerine, \u015firketin veya kurumun t\u00fcm sorumlulu\u011funu \u00fcstlenebilecek beceride i\u015f <em>yapmak\u2026 <\/em>Asl\u0131nda sadece ve sadece <em>oldu\u011fumuz<\/em> \u015feyler i\u00e7in de\u011ferliyiz. Her \u015feyin \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze haz\u0131r geldi\u011fi anne karn\u0131ndaki cennetten kopar\u0131l\u0131p bu hayata geldi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in, evlat-anne-baba-\u00e7al\u0131\u015fan-i\u015f veren-\u00f6\u011frenci\u2026.oldu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in de\u011ferliyiz. S\u00fcrekli olarak bulundu\u011fumuz pozisyonu sabote edip y\u00fcz \u00e7evirdik\u00e7e, <em>oldu\u011fumuz<\/em> \u015feyler i\u00e7in m\u00fcte\u015fekkir kalmadan bir \u015feyler yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a ruhumuzun en \u00f6nemli vitamin kaynaklar\u0131ndan biri olan narsisizmi sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u015fekilde ya\u015fayam\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Narkissos\u2019un ard\u0131ndan a\u00e7an nergis, insana \u015fu dersi f\u0131s\u0131ldar: Kendi yans\u0131mas\u0131na g\u00f6m\u00fclen ruh solmaya yazg\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r; fakat \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc bir \u00f6zde\u011fer, benli\u011fi her defas\u0131nda yeniden ye\u015ferten gizli bir bahard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Narkissos, ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc g\u00fczelli\u011fiyle tan\u0131nan bir delikanl\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n sevgisine kay\u0131ts\u0131zd\u0131r, kimseyi be\u011fenmez. 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