Ezop, Sisam Adas\u0131\u2019n\u0131n Kral\u0131 Ladmon\u2019un k\u00f6lesi olmadan \u00f6nce, \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bilginlerinden Ksantus\u2019un k\u00f6lesi imi\u015f. Ksantus, bir g\u00fcn Ezop\u2019a demi\u015f ki:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7ar\u015f\u0131ya git, bu ak\u015famki misafirlerime en iyi, en lezzetli yemekleri yapmak i\u00e7in ne gerekiyorsa sat\u0131n al.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ezop, Ksantus\u2019un misafirleri \u015ferefine verdi\u011fi ziyafette b\u00fct\u00fcn yemekleri \u201cdil\u201dden yapm\u0131\u015f. Ksantus, Ezop\u2019u misafirlerinin \u00f6n\u00fcnde azarlam\u0131\u015f:<\/p>\n
\u201cNedir bu rezalet? Ben sana en lezzetli, en nefis yemekleri yap, dedim. Sen hepsini dilden yapm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ezop \u201cEvet efendim, en lezzetli yemekleri hep dilden yapt\u0131m\u201d demi\u015f. \u201c\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcnyadaki en g\u00fczel, en tatl\u0131 \u015fey dildir. \u0130nsanlar dilleriyle anla\u015f\u0131rlar, dilleriyle dua ederler, di\u011ferlerine kar\u015f\u0131 sevgilerini dille anlat\u0131rlar. Dil olmasayd\u0131, insanlar\u0131n h\u00e2li ne olurdu?\u201d<\/p>\n
Aradan belli bir zaman ge\u00e7mi\u015f; Ksantus, bu defa pek sevmedi\u011fi ki\u015filere ziyafet vermek istemi\u015f. Yine \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015f ama bu defa Ezop\u2019tan en k\u00f6t\u00fc yiyecekleri haz\u0131rlamas\u0131n\u0131 istemi\u015f. Ezop, bir \u00f6nceki ziyafet gibi, \u00e7orba d\u00e2hil b\u00fct\u00fcn yiyecekleri dilden yapm\u0131\u015f ve efendisi kendisini azarlamadan yan\u0131na gidip e\u011filerek kula\u011f\u0131na f\u0131s\u0131ldam\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n
\u201cD\u00fcnyadaki en ac\u0131, en \u00e7irkin, en k\u00f6t\u00fc \u015fey dildir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131, birbirine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren, kavga ettiren, aralar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7an, sava\u015flar \u00e7\u0131kartan dildir. \u0130nsan\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na gelen pek \u00e7ok felaketin sebebi, dildir.\u201d Ezop dilin g\u00fcc\u00fcnden bahsederken \u00e7ok ince bir y\u00f6nden yakla\u015fm\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n
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Dil insanlar\u0131 di\u011fer t\u00fcm canl\u0131lardan ay\u0131ran en \u00f6nemli ileti\u015fim unsurudur. T\u00fcrk\u00e7e\u2019yi yerinde g\u00fczel ve anlaml\u0131 kullanmak \u00f6nemli bir meziyettir. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00fcnya her k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn her alan\u0131n birbirine hem \u00e7ok \u00e7abuk entegre olaca\u011f\u0131 hem \u00e7ok kolay yozla\u015f\u0131p bozulabilece\u011fi bir zemine sahip. Her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn insan; egosunu k\u00f6r\u00fckleyen bencilli\u011fi zirveye \u00e7\u0131karan bir haz ve h\u0131z \u00e7a\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7inde savrulmakta. Her zaman her \u015feyin en m\u00fckemmelinin bizim olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyoruz. S\u00fcrekli bu y\u00f6nde bir g\u00f6steri\u015f ve t\u00fcketim \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7inde ilkel beynimizi doyurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. \u0130leti\u015fim kurarken de dilin g\u00fcc\u00fcnden ziyade kendi m\u00fckemmelli\u011fini sergilemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan tiplerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabiliyoruz. \u0130\u015fte tam da bu noktada m\u00fckemmel olma iste\u011finin hastal\u0131k safhas\u0131na gelen durumlara u\u00e7 \u00f6rnek olacak detaylarla dolu bir kitaptan bahsetmek istiyorum. Thomas Curran\u2019\u0131n M\u00fckemmellik Tuza\u011f\u0131 kitab\u0131 ibretlik \u00f6rneklerle dolu. Onlardan biraz bahsedelim.<\/p>\n
1843 y\u0131l\u0131nda ge\u00e7en Nathaniel Hawthorne\u2019un hikayesindeki \u00f6rnekle devam edelim.<\/p>\n
The Birthmark adl\u0131 hikayede tan\u0131m\u0131\u015f bir bilim insan\u0131; kimyager olan Aylmer Georgia ad\u0131nda kusursuz g\u00fczellikte bir k\u0131zla evlenir. K\u0131zca\u011f\u0131z\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc saf ve masumdur. Fakat sol yana\u011f\u0131 \u00fczerindeki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir do\u011fum lekesi onun bu g\u00fczelli\u011fini zedelemektedir. Aylmer \u2018kar beyaz bir y\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00fcst\u00fcndeki k\u0131z\u0131l leke \u2018 diye tabir etti\u011fi bu kusurdan o kadar rahats\u0131z olur ki Georgia\u2019ya her bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bu kusurdan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey g\u00f6remez.<\/p>\n
Aylmer i\u00e7in bu leke Georgia\u2019n\u0131n \u2018\u00f6l\u00fcmc\u00fcl kusuru\u2019dur. K\u0131sa s\u00fcrede Aylmer\u2019\u0131n bu tiksintisi zavall\u0131 Georgia\u2019n\u0131n da \u00f6z benli\u011fini \u00f6teleyip \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini ezerek kendinden nefret etmesine sebep olur. Ve maalesef hik\u00e2ye, idealize edilmi\u015f bir g\u00fczellik u\u011fruna bu \u00e7abayla ba\u015flarken h\u00fcsranla bitece\u011finden kimsenin haberi yoktur. Kar\u0131 koca bir plan yaparlar. Yetenekli bir kimyager olan Aylmer bir tedavi ke\u015ffedene kadar kimyasallar\u0131, bile\u015fikleri deneye yan\u0131la Georgia\u2019\u0131n \u00fczerinde tetkik etmeye devam eder. Her g\u00fcn yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bile\u015fiklere ili\u015fkin form\u00fclleri not defterinden tetkik ederken baz\u0131 notlar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131 g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini g\u00f6rse de arad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hedefledi\u011fi idealize etti\u011fi noktaya ula\u015famam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ve t\u00fcm bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k olarak kayda d\u00fc\u015fer. Yine \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131na devam eder ve adeta bir mucize olmu\u015f gibi \u2018 Eureka!\u2019 diye ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131r. \u2018Cennet \u00e7e\u015fmesinin suyu \u2018 diye tarif etti\u011fi kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131 Georgia\u2019ya i\u00e7irir. K\u0131zca\u011f\u0131z fenala\u015f\u0131r bay\u0131l\u0131r ertesi g\u00fcn uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bir prenses g\u00fczelli\u011fi ile yatan Georgia\u2019n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki do\u011fum lekesi kaybolmu\u015ftur. Kar\u0131koca bu mucize kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131 ve ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcle oynaya kutlarlar. Ne yaz\u0131k ki Hawthorne\u2019un hik\u00e2yesinin sonu ac\u0131 biter. Aylmer kar\u0131s\u0131 Georgia\u2019n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki do\u011fum lekesini d\u00fczeltmi\u015ftir ama bu onun hayat\u0131na mal olur. Georgia\u2019n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc d\u00fczelmi\u015f olsa da \u00e7ok ge\u00e7meden o da lekesi gibi yok olur gider.<\/p>\n
Hawthorn\u2019un The Birthmark\u2019\u0131 kaleme almas\u0131ndan k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre sonra d\u00f6nem yazarlar\u0131ndan ve Annabel Lee \u015fiiriyle tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z Edgar Alain Poe m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7ili\u011fin trajik psikolojisine dair t\u00fcyler \u00fcrpertici. \u2018Art\u0131k bu kadar\u0131 da olamaz!\u2019 dedirtecek bir hik\u00e2ye kaleme al\u0131r. The Oval Portrait adl\u0131 hik\u00e2yeyi k\u0131saca \u015f\u00f6yle \u00f6zetleyip de\u011ferlendirmeye ge\u00e7elim. Poe\u2019nun The Oval Portrait hik\u00e2yesinde yaral\u0131 bir adam \u0130talya yar\u0131madas\u0131nda terk edilmi\u015f bir k\u00f6\u015fke s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r. Beraberindeki u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 onu ne kadar iyile\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p yaralar\u0131n\u0131 sarsa da durumu k\u00f6t\u00fcye gider. Kendini bir odaya kilitler, ate\u015fler i\u00e7inde yatarken g\u00f6z\u00fc duvardaki tablolara tak\u0131l\u0131r hemen yata\u011f\u0131n yan\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda tablolar\u0131n hik\u00e2yelerini anlatan bir kitap bulunmaktad\u0131r. O ate\u015fli yorgun dakikalar i\u00e7inde k\u0131vran\u0131rken \u015famdan \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kitab\u0131 okuyacak bir yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Tam kar\u015f\u0131 duvarda kuytuda kalm\u0131\u015f bir kad\u0131n tablosu dikkatini \u00e7eker. Bu tablonun hik\u00e2yesini arar bulur o kitapta. Ve a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7as\u0131 okudu\u011fu \u015feyler \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr bu adamca\u011f\u0131z\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc tablonun hikayesine g\u00f6re portredeki k\u0131z \u00e7ok yetenekli ama biraz sorunlu olan gen\u00e7 bir ressam\u0131n kar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Nadide bir g\u00fczelli\u011fe sahip olan gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n kocas\u0131n\u0131n kendini, sanat\u0131na adamas\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 mustariptir. \u0130leti\u015fim i\u00e7inde olmay\u0131 istemektedir. Sadece ileti\u015fim kurabilirim d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinden dolay\u0131 kocas\u0131na model olmay\u0131 kabul eder. Ama ressam koca, sanat\u0131yla o kadar me\u015fguld\u00fcr ki tabloda f\u0131r\u00e7a darbeleri renk tonlamalar\u0131 \u0131\u015f\u0131k oyunlar\u0131 ile u\u011fra\u015f\u0131r g\u00fcnlerce gecelerce. Kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcne bakmamaktad\u0131r. Arada bir so\u011fuyan kahvesinden i\u00e7er modelin oturdu\u011fu koltukta olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilememektedir bile. Sonra birden bir anl\u0131\u011f\u0131na kendine gelir bir de ne g\u00f6rs\u00fcn kar\u0131s\u0131 koltukta ilgisizlikten \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
Bu bahsi ge\u00e7en \u00f6rnekler ebetteki abart\u0131d\u0131r. Fakat i\u00e7inde dil ileti\u015fimin ne denli \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu i\u015faret etmektedir. \u0130nsan birlikte iken g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve yap\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. Birlikte iken do\u011far hayat\u0131n g\u00fczellikleri. Kendimizi bunca yo\u011funluk i\u00e7inde savururken o k\u0131ymetli hayat\u0131n nerede bitece\u011fini bilemeyiz. O sebeple dili do\u011fru ve g\u00fczel kullanmak herkesin temel g\u00f6revidir. \u0130yi bir ileti\u015fim mutlu bir hayat demektir. \u0130yi ili\u015fkiler g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir psikoloji demektir. Eninde sonunda her \u015fey bitecektir \u00f6m\u00fcrde !\u00d6m\u00fcr bitmeden ileti\u015fim i\u00e7inde olmak en b\u00fcy\u00fck kazan\u00e7t\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ehov\u2019un Vanya Day\u0131 adl\u0131 eserinden bir sahne ile bitireyim yaz\u0131y\u0131. Vanya Day\u0131 adl\u0131 oyun Anton \u00c7ehov\u2019un 1897\u2019de yay\u0131nlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir oyun. \u00c7ehov, \u00fclkesi Rusya’n\u0131n ekonomik ve toplumsal olarak kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fu bir d\u00f6nemde yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu tiyatro oyununda namusuyla \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ve kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile yetinmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan Vanya ve ye\u011feni Sonya ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan g\u00f6steri\u015fli bir hayat s\u00fcren Profes\u00f6r Serebryakov ve gen\u00e7 kar\u0131s\u0131 Yelena aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 anlatt\u0131. Anton \u00c7ehov “Vanya Day\u0131” oyununda Vanya ile ye\u011feni Sonya aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en diyalogda \u015f\u00f6yle diyor:<\/p>\n
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SONYA:<\/p>\n
“Ne yapabiliriz? Ya\u015famak gerek! Ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131z Vanya Day\u0131.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ok uzun g\u00fcnler, bo\u011fucu ak\u015famlar ge\u00e7irece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n
Al\u0131nyaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0131navlar\u0131na sab\u0131rla katlanaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn de, ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda da dinlenmek bilmeden ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p didinece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n
Ecel gelip \u00e7at\u0131nca da uysalca \u00f6lece\u011fiz ve orada, mezar\u0131n \u00f6tesinde, ‘\u00c7ok ac\u0131 \u00e7ektik, g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6kt\u00fck, \u00e7ok ac\u0131 \u015feyler ya\u015fad\u0131k,’ diyece\u011fiz…<\/p>\n
Tanr\u0131 da ac\u0131yacak bize ve biz seninle can\u0131m day\u0131c\u0131\u011f\u0131m, parlak, g\u00fczel, sevimli bir hayata kavu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n
Buradaki mutsuzluklar\u0131m\u0131za sevgiyle, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcyle g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyece\u011fiz ve dinlenece\u011fiz…<\/p>\n
\u0130nan\u0131yorum buna day\u0131c\u0131\u011f\u0131m, b\u00fct\u00fcn kalbimle, tutkuyla inan\u0131yorum…<\/p>\n
Dinlenece\u011fiz! Dinlenece\u011fiz!<\/p>\n
Melekleri dinleyece\u011fiz, elmas gibi y\u0131ld\u0131zlarla kapl\u0131 g\u00f6kleri g\u00f6rece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n
D\u00fcnyan\u0131n t\u00fcm k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerinin, t\u00fcm ac\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 ba\u015ftan ba\u015fa kaplayacak olan merhametin \u00f6n\u00fcnde silinip gitti\u011fini g\u00f6rece\u011fiz.<\/p>\n
Ve hayat\u0131m\u0131z bir ok\u015fama gibi dingin, yumu\u015fak, tatl\u0131 olacak.<\/p>\n
\u0130nan\u0131yorum, inan\u0131yorum buna.<\/p>\n
Zavall\u0131, zavall\u0131 Vanya Day\u0131, a\u011fl\u0131yorsun…<\/p>\n
Hayat\u0131nda mutlulu\u011fu tadamad\u0131n ama bekle Vanya Day\u0131, bekle… Dinlenece\u011fiz… Dinlenece\u011fiz!”<\/p>\n
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Son s\u00f6z olarak \u015funu diyebilirim. \u0130leti\u015fim her alanda huzur ba\u015far\u0131 kazan\u00e7 sa\u011flar. Ama her \u015fey biter sonu\u00e7 \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u00fcr. O halde bir \u015feyleri \u00e7ok kayg\u0131 boyutuna vard\u0131rmadan ileti\u015fim i\u00e7inde ya\u015famak en b\u00fcy\u00fck kazan\u00e7 en tatl\u0131 mutluluktur.<\/p>\n
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Ezop, Sisam Adas\u0131\u2019n\u0131n Kral\u0131 Ladmon\u2019un k\u00f6lesi olmadan \u00f6nce, \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bilginlerinden Ksantus\u2019un k\u00f6lesi imi\u015f. Ksantus,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":32,"featured_media":1921,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[100],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[232],"class_list":["post-1920","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-deneme"],"yoast_head":"\n